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Fighting an addiction is difficult. Fighting an addiction alone is one of the hardest things one can ever do. For someone like me who’s been addicted for so long to my addiction (LOL), I know my weak points or trigger conditions like the back of my hand. Knowing them however is a whole different universe away from protecting myself against them.

I’ve been fighting this addiction for a while years and each time I’ve set myself a benchmark of going 6 weeks “clean”; a target I have never achieved until now. Today actually marks 45 days of “cleanliness” stretching back to Christmas Day of 2015. There were times when the going seemed easy, when I was so busy that the days seemed to pass by like a speeding train and 42 days seemed an easy mark to attain. Other times however, it seemed like I was stuck in a traffic of days, the hour hand of the clock only moving an inch in weeks.


The last few days have been the toughest. The conditions were so torturous that I have almost given in more than once. I had set February 7th as the end of my 6-week journey but it seemed to be taking its merry time to arrive and so yesterday, on one of those occasions when the prospect of giving in began to feel very attractive, I counted the days I had stayed “clean” and realised my 6-week or 42-day mark had already been surpassed. It was an anti-climax. I had been waiting so long for a particular moment and it had just passed me by unknowingly.

Now I’m fighting a different battle. A part of me wants to give in now: “break” on my own terms, when the chain of days is still relatively short and when I can deal with the aftermath of giving in, than to give in later in a time of weakness, when I have gone “clean” for so long and when the regret and despondency at the aftermath would probably send me into another spiral of addiction.


I can’t afford to look to far into the future so I am just going to take each day as it comes and fight the battles each day presents and hopefully, there’ll come a time when I can look at the clock without counting down to how long I have left to be able to mark the day as “clean”. ~Senam


5 thoughts on “42

  1. Hmmmmm, you said it all. All the best, i pray u find strength to carry on as am also doing. I stopped counting ma days not because it’s been long since i fell to ma weakness but it makes u wanna go back to the addiction cos you feel u have achieved some clean days after all. I pray to so many years ahead where i wont be scared of this addiction anymore and it wont be close of part of me.

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    1. Lol ikr. Some times the days seem small and I’m like “Its just 10 days, its not long, I can give in with no problems”.

      Other times, I’m like “11 days is so much, I need to keep going” lol

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  2. I’m not sure how I missed this post when you first posted it, but I’m glad I noticed it this morning, because I want to give you a 2 thumbs up! Great job. And I also send you a virtual hug! You can do this, Amigo!

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